So the short answer is that we cannot get a layer that shows the model grid because the information is not available to Windy. Too bad, but can't argue about that.
But the long answer is fascinating. On the graphics that you provided we can see that the model grid can be projected on a theoritical globe at sea level (there is surely a proper name for it). Ground location could also be projected on the same theoretical globe (which is probably what a road map is), so it would be possible to create a layer if the model grid nodes are fixed in space. But I now suspect that the model grid nodes are placed on axes measured in pressure units and or other physical variables. And that would make my request impractical.